1 00:00:02,000 --> 00:00:04,920 This programme contains strong language and adult themes 2 00:00:04,960 --> 00:00:07,440 Marriage, to me, means everything. Previously... 3 00:00:07,480 --> 00:00:09,400 I am extremely excited. This is the most 4 00:00:09,440 --> 00:00:11,800 spontaneous thing I've actually ever done. 5 00:00:11,840 --> 00:00:14,720 ..four more courageous singles said I do to a stranger. 6 00:00:14,760 --> 00:00:17,280 I'm extremely nervous. 7 00:00:17,320 --> 00:00:19,760 I want an epic love story. 8 00:00:19,800 --> 00:00:22,560 Whilst romance sparked for one couple... 9 00:00:22,600 --> 00:00:24,600 It's love at first sight. ..for the other... 10 00:00:24,640 --> 00:00:27,800 What are you like when you're drunk? ..one bride's party spirit... 11 00:00:27,840 --> 00:00:31,280 Wild, argumentative. Argumentative? 12 00:00:31,320 --> 00:00:33,640 ..raised concerns for her groom. 13 00:00:33,680 --> 00:00:36,920 She is more fiery than I'm used to. 14 00:00:36,960 --> 00:00:38,320 That is a worry. 15 00:00:38,360 --> 00:00:40,920 And for Leigh and Leah... I just want to go home. 16 00:00:40,960 --> 00:00:42,440 ..struggles on the slopes... 17 00:00:42,480 --> 00:00:44,480 I might have a panic attack. I'm not joking. 18 00:00:44,520 --> 00:00:46,720 ..landed them in honeymoon hell. 19 00:00:46,760 --> 00:00:50,280 She doesn't understand the severity of things until it gets too far. 20 00:00:51,560 --> 00:00:53,000 I've ballsed up, haven't I? 21 00:00:54,640 --> 00:00:56,240 SHE SOBS 22 00:00:57,280 --> 00:01:00,640 Tonight... I don't struggle to meet women. 23 00:01:00,680 --> 00:01:04,400 I just haven't met the right person. ..two more bold singles... 24 00:01:04,440 --> 00:01:08,080 I'm attracted to the alpha male. 25 00:01:08,120 --> 00:01:10,680 I won't settle for anything less. 26 00:01:10,720 --> 00:01:13,360 ..meet and marry at first sight. 27 00:01:13,400 --> 00:01:17,440 Hi. But one bride's rigid expectations... 28 00:01:17,480 --> 00:01:19,480 I can't tell whether he's an alpha or not. 29 00:01:19,520 --> 00:01:22,880 ..bring a bitter disappointment. He's not my type. 30 00:01:22,920 --> 00:01:24,760 You may now share your first kiss. 31 00:01:26,960 --> 00:01:29,600 I can't remember the last time I was given the cheek, if I'm honest. 32 00:01:29,640 --> 00:01:31,720 Is that a first par? Bloody hell. 33 00:01:31,760 --> 00:01:33,400 Four more newlyweds... 34 00:01:33,440 --> 00:01:36,720 "It's time for your honeymoon. The magical Morocco." 35 00:01:36,760 --> 00:01:38,800 ..set off on their romantic escape. 36 00:01:38,840 --> 00:01:40,640 I cannot wait to get wavy, like. 37 00:01:40,680 --> 00:01:44,280 Joe's worst fears become reality. You really pissed me off. 38 00:01:44,320 --> 00:01:46,880 Why? Cos you BLEEP are, man. You actually BLEEP are. 39 00:01:48,080 --> 00:01:51,680 And Divarni's negative conversations... Knowing that I 40 00:01:51,720 --> 00:01:53,560 could potentially be alone for the rest of my life. 41 00:01:53,600 --> 00:01:55,440 That would be the worst. 42 00:01:55,480 --> 00:01:57,280 ..unleash tension... 43 00:01:57,320 --> 00:01:59,760 Everything is so intense and so deep. 44 00:01:59,800 --> 00:02:01,840 ..that tears their honeymoon apart. 45 00:02:01,880 --> 00:02:04,920 The last thing I want to do is have a talk about our traumas and then, 46 00:02:04,960 --> 00:02:06,320 like, get into bed with you. 47 00:02:07,440 --> 00:02:09,160 There's trouble in paradise, isn't it? 48 00:02:17,720 --> 00:02:20,040 It's hot. God, I'm sweating here. 49 00:02:20,080 --> 00:02:22,440 I cannot wait to get in the pool. Pina colada? 50 00:02:22,480 --> 00:02:25,600 Pina colada. Cannot wait to get wavy, like. 51 00:02:25,640 --> 00:02:27,240 I'm still not 100% too certain 52 00:02:27,280 --> 00:02:29,880 where we are, but it's absolutely amazing. 53 00:02:29,920 --> 00:02:31,200 Oh, my God. 54 00:02:31,240 --> 00:02:34,040 Champagne. Do you want some? Of course I do. 55 00:02:34,080 --> 00:02:36,920 Jamaica. Is that right? Caribbean? 56 00:02:36,960 --> 00:02:38,560 I don't actually know. 57 00:02:38,600 --> 00:02:39,840 I don't know. 58 00:02:40,880 --> 00:02:44,880 This... We've got our own pool, haven't we? ..is insane. 59 00:02:44,920 --> 00:02:47,920 I can't wait to jump in there. It don't feel real to me. 60 00:02:47,960 --> 00:02:49,840 Na. You know what I mean? 61 00:02:51,040 --> 00:02:53,080 I still haven't come to terms with that 62 00:02:53,120 --> 00:02:55,280 I'm actually married. 63 00:02:55,320 --> 00:02:57,840 Obviously, there are things I do like about Maeve, 64 00:02:57,880 --> 00:02:59,600 but my first impressions were, 65 00:02:59,640 --> 00:03:04,040 I wasn't really sure if she is what I needed. 66 00:03:04,080 --> 00:03:06,320 A few bevvies? Can't wait. 67 00:03:06,360 --> 00:03:09,760 She came across big, brash personality. Um, yeah. 68 00:03:09,800 --> 00:03:11,440 And I just think it's going to take some time just 69 00:03:11,480 --> 00:03:14,200 to see if she isn't just a party girl. 70 00:03:14,240 --> 00:03:15,520 But I guess we'll find out. 71 00:03:17,160 --> 00:03:19,920 So, like, one thing I might be concerned 72 00:03:19,960 --> 00:03:23,200 about is obviously when we're both drinking... 73 00:03:23,240 --> 00:03:26,080 Yeah. ..how we're going to, like, be with each other. 74 00:03:26,120 --> 00:03:27,960 Because obviously you said you were like, 75 00:03:28,000 --> 00:03:30,840 proper argumentative and shit when you're pissed. 76 00:03:30,880 --> 00:03:32,840 So... I'm all right. 77 00:03:32,880 --> 00:03:37,440 But the more I drink, the more, like, cheeky I get. Yeah. 78 00:03:37,480 --> 00:03:40,320 The more looking to, like, push your buttons I get. 79 00:03:43,840 --> 00:03:45,200 Cos you've calmed down. 80 00:03:45,240 --> 00:03:48,440 You know what I mean? And, like, that's what I want to be like. 81 00:03:48,480 --> 00:03:51,360 So maybe you might possibly be the one to try it. 82 00:03:51,400 --> 00:03:54,280 Well, calm us down, hopefully 83 00:03:54,320 --> 00:03:56,320 Do you think that'll happen? 84 00:03:56,360 --> 00:03:58,240 Right now, probably not. 85 00:04:01,160 --> 00:04:03,000 I've always sworn by treat them mean, 86 00:04:03,040 --> 00:04:04,360 keep them keen. 87 00:04:05,440 --> 00:04:08,320 If you can handle me at my worst, you can have me at my best. 88 00:04:09,600 --> 00:04:13,120 The more time I'm spending with Joe, I'm starting to like him. 89 00:04:13,160 --> 00:04:16,120 And I feel like he's a very easy person to talk to. 90 00:04:16,160 --> 00:04:18,120 But I still have my guard up. 91 00:04:19,160 --> 00:04:23,200 In my past relationships, I have been walked all over. 92 00:04:23,240 --> 00:04:24,520 What can go wrong? 93 00:04:26,200 --> 00:04:29,120 Get a couple of drinks down us and we'll sharp find out. 94 00:04:41,880 --> 00:04:44,000 Got you a little hot chocolate. 95 00:04:44,040 --> 00:04:46,160 I'll hold, you pour. 96 00:04:46,200 --> 00:04:48,840 OK. So the honeymoon. 97 00:04:48,880 --> 00:04:51,720 it has been up and down in terms of where we're at. 98 00:04:51,760 --> 00:04:53,600 She has been a bit aggy and stuff with me. 99 00:04:53,640 --> 00:04:56,760 It's emotionally draining. I do feel like I'm giving more. 100 00:04:58,480 --> 00:05:00,240 And I want her to know that. 101 00:05:07,400 --> 00:05:08,680 I feel like at this point... 102 00:05:11,840 --> 00:05:14,920 ..I feel like I'm maybe trying a little bit harder. 103 00:05:20,920 --> 00:05:22,520 Are you? 104 00:05:25,680 --> 00:05:27,000 I'm always attentive with you. 105 00:05:27,040 --> 00:05:28,800 I'm like, "Do you want this? Do you want that? 106 00:05:28,840 --> 00:05:32,360 "You look nice." Constantly giving you compliments. 107 00:05:32,400 --> 00:05:35,520 For me, I need a little bit of, like, flirtiness back. 108 00:05:35,560 --> 00:05:38,720 I don't want to flirt with you because, 109 00:05:38,760 --> 00:05:42,000 like, that part for me is just, like, not there yet. 110 00:05:43,720 --> 00:05:45,160 I don't want to rush myself. 111 00:05:46,520 --> 00:05:48,520 But you could be a little bit more flirty, I think. 112 00:05:50,840 --> 00:05:53,440 "Oh, Leah, your hair looks nice today. 113 00:05:53,480 --> 00:05:55,800 "Oh, Leah, I like the way you're wearing your rings." 114 00:05:57,880 --> 00:06:01,920 OK. Do we want to just dig me out, how fucking awful I am? 115 00:06:04,040 --> 00:06:05,120 I feel like we're in this experiment. 116 00:06:05,160 --> 00:06:06,480 We need to, like, 117 00:06:06,520 --> 00:06:09,280 push ourselves more than we would in the outside world. 118 00:06:11,520 --> 00:06:15,400 We have to meet in the middle if we want it to try and work. 119 00:06:15,440 --> 00:06:17,000 Do you know what I mean? 120 00:06:18,520 --> 00:06:21,720 I know I'm not her type, but also she's not my type. 121 00:06:23,360 --> 00:06:26,080 I still can have a flirt and have a joke with her. 122 00:06:26,120 --> 00:06:28,040 Is she open to giving a little bit more? 123 00:06:28,080 --> 00:06:29,360 Because if it's not, I can't 124 00:06:29,400 --> 00:06:31,440 see myself going through this process. 125 00:06:31,480 --> 00:06:33,440 It's just a waste of time for me. 126 00:06:37,280 --> 00:06:39,000 Do you want to go and play in the snow? 127 00:06:40,200 --> 00:06:41,600 No. 128 00:06:49,480 --> 00:06:51,040 God, no, no. 129 00:06:51,080 --> 00:06:53,320 Back in the UK... Close them! 130 00:06:53,360 --> 00:06:55,480 Julia-Ruth and Divarni are waking 131 00:06:55,520 --> 00:06:58,280 up to their first morning as a married couple. 132 00:06:58,320 --> 00:07:01,480 How did you sleep? Fantastic. How was yours? 133 00:07:01,520 --> 00:07:04,000 Hey, listen, I put my head on the pillow and I was gone. 134 00:07:05,120 --> 00:07:07,280 First night with my wife was very romantic. 135 00:07:07,320 --> 00:07:10,480 When I opened my eyes this morning, I thought I was dreaming. 136 00:07:10,520 --> 00:07:13,400 My wife is a very beautiful woman. I'm very attracted to her. 137 00:07:13,440 --> 00:07:16,080 I couldn't ask for anything better. So it was it was good. 138 00:07:17,640 --> 00:07:21,720 It was just super, super, super-duper comfortable. 139 00:07:21,760 --> 00:07:22,960 OK. Good. 140 00:07:27,160 --> 00:07:29,040 I feel like the wedding was such a high, 141 00:07:29,080 --> 00:07:33,000 but I have woken up with like a different thought this morning. 142 00:07:33,040 --> 00:07:38,040 I'm quite an openly sexual person, but I'm not having that desire. 143 00:07:38,080 --> 00:07:40,840 So I do think that I just want to take things slowly 144 00:07:40,880 --> 00:07:43,440 and at our pace and just build from there. 145 00:07:45,960 --> 00:07:49,120 "Julia-Ruth and Divarni, congratulations. 146 00:07:49,160 --> 00:07:52,080 "We hope you enjoyed your first night as newlyweds. 147 00:07:52,120 --> 00:07:56,640 "Now it's time for your honeymoon in the magical Morocco, 148 00:07:56,680 --> 00:08:00,080 "the perfect setting for an enchanting love story to begin." 149 00:08:00,120 --> 00:08:02,520 I'm screaming. I love that. 150 00:08:03,680 --> 00:08:05,520 We're going to Morocco! 151 00:08:07,520 --> 00:08:11,440 I didn't get the initial spark that I was hoping for with Divarni. 152 00:08:11,480 --> 00:08:15,000 Let's try and make the most of being on the honeymoon and see if it grows. 153 00:08:17,800 --> 00:08:20,240 Morocco! Morocco, here we come. 154 00:08:20,280 --> 00:08:22,320 Oh, I'm here for it. 155 00:08:29,640 --> 00:08:32,200 Morocco! Morocco! We're excited. 156 00:08:32,240 --> 00:08:34,920 We're ready. As Julia-Ruth and Divarni 157 00:08:34,960 --> 00:08:36,840 jet off on honeymoon, 158 00:08:36,880 --> 00:08:41,400 another hopeful single is ready to put her trust in the experts. 159 00:08:41,440 --> 00:08:44,680 I'm ready. I'm excited. 160 00:08:44,720 --> 00:08:45,760 Let's go, guys. 161 00:08:47,400 --> 00:08:49,560 I'm successful, 162 00:08:49,600 --> 00:08:52,520 fiercely independent... 163 00:08:52,560 --> 00:08:54,880 ..and determined. 164 00:08:54,920 --> 00:08:56,600 Three, two, one. 165 00:08:56,640 --> 00:08:58,080 LAUGHTER 166 00:08:59,320 --> 00:09:02,760 The gym's a huge part of my life. I love to feel healthy. 167 00:09:02,800 --> 00:09:04,200 I love to feel strong. 168 00:09:04,240 --> 00:09:08,960 And I think that's why I'm attracted to the alpha male. 169 00:09:09,000 --> 00:09:14,400 I'm attracted to the big man that can lead me by the hand. 170 00:09:16,920 --> 00:09:19,000 Are we ready? Mm-hm. Lovely. 171 00:09:19,040 --> 00:09:22,720 I'm an aesthetics nurse and I run my own clinic from home. 172 00:09:22,760 --> 00:09:24,960 I absolutely love my job. 173 00:09:25,000 --> 00:09:27,880 I've managed to build a business 174 00:09:27,920 --> 00:09:32,440 on my own from the ground up. It's thriving. 175 00:09:32,480 --> 00:09:35,200 Is that OK? You're feeling all right? And I'm so proud of that. 176 00:09:35,240 --> 00:09:37,640 Because I know that it's me who's achieved that. 177 00:09:39,040 --> 00:09:40,920 When you're entrepreneurial, 178 00:09:40,960 --> 00:09:44,320 you strive for more all the time. 179 00:09:44,360 --> 00:09:46,520 My standards are very high. 180 00:09:46,560 --> 00:09:50,240 I like things to be in order, and I like things to look nice. 181 00:09:50,280 --> 00:09:51,360 I won't settle 182 00:09:51,400 --> 00:09:55,440 for anything less than perfection in my life, 183 00:09:55,480 --> 00:09:57,600 and I feel the same about my relationships. 184 00:10:01,800 --> 00:10:06,840 I was with my ex-partner for eight years and we got engaged, 185 00:10:06,880 --> 00:10:11,400 and a little while after that I broke off the engagement. 186 00:10:11,440 --> 00:10:14,160 When he proposed, 187 00:10:14,200 --> 00:10:17,320 there was something inside me 188 00:10:17,360 --> 00:10:22,480 that was saying, "I'm not sure if this is 100% right." 189 00:10:23,520 --> 00:10:26,120 Making the decision that I made to break off 190 00:10:26,160 --> 00:10:30,000 the engagement obviously changed the course of my life, 191 00:10:30,040 --> 00:10:32,440 but changed me as a person. Yeah, it was 192 00:10:32,480 --> 00:10:34,320 heartbreaking for us all, you know, 193 00:10:34,360 --> 00:10:39,680 because we just...we just thought that was your course to be on. 194 00:10:39,720 --> 00:10:41,000 There is somebody out there 195 00:10:41,040 --> 00:10:44,000 that is just going to be perfect for what you want. 196 00:10:45,480 --> 00:10:49,320 I have a really clear idea of the type of person that I want, 197 00:10:49,360 --> 00:10:51,120 the values that I want him to have, 198 00:10:51,160 --> 00:10:52,760 the way that I want him to live his life, 199 00:10:52,800 --> 00:10:55,360 and what would work well for me in that sense. 200 00:10:55,400 --> 00:10:57,160 And I haven't ever felt that before. 201 00:10:59,440 --> 00:11:02,400 I want to be with a partner and think, 202 00:11:02,440 --> 00:11:05,000 "This is everything that I've ever wanted." 203 00:11:05,040 --> 00:11:08,240 So if you found somebody that wasn't your type, 204 00:11:08,280 --> 00:11:11,560 would you be willing to put the work in and the effort 205 00:11:11,600 --> 00:11:14,120 in if he didn't tick those boxes straight away? 206 00:11:14,160 --> 00:11:17,680 I feel like I'm the type of person that needs them 207 00:11:17,720 --> 00:11:20,520 boxes ticked instantly. 208 00:11:20,560 --> 00:11:24,440 And if they're not, in my mind I think, "It's not going to work. 209 00:11:24,480 --> 00:11:26,600 "It's not going to work. Just move on." 210 00:11:26,640 --> 00:11:30,120 I'm attracted to the alpha male. 211 00:11:32,080 --> 00:11:34,800 Somebody tall, 212 00:11:34,840 --> 00:11:38,120 confident, and who's sure of themselves. 213 00:11:38,160 --> 00:11:41,520 I want him to have really strong family values 214 00:11:41,560 --> 00:11:44,840 and want to have a family in the future with me. 215 00:11:44,880 --> 00:11:46,240 I want him to be kind 216 00:11:46,280 --> 00:11:50,080 and respectful, to have a lot of get up and go. 217 00:11:52,760 --> 00:11:54,840 And to be really funny. 218 00:11:54,880 --> 00:11:57,960 I'm really ready to find the one. 219 00:11:58,000 --> 00:12:00,080 And something as crazy and as wild 220 00:12:00,120 --> 00:12:02,560 as this feels like the right next step. 221 00:12:05,200 --> 00:12:08,240 I have got 100% hit rate in my flirting. 222 00:12:08,280 --> 00:12:10,680 Listen, don't ask my friends what they say, just ask me. 223 00:12:10,720 --> 00:12:12,480 It's 100%. 224 00:12:12,520 --> 00:12:15,200 We never thought we'd see the day that Bailey gets married. 225 00:12:15,240 --> 00:12:16,440 I always thought I'd get married. 226 00:12:16,480 --> 00:12:18,560 Like, chill out on that. 227 00:12:18,600 --> 00:12:21,600 Everyone grows up. I'm not like a massive flirt any more. 228 00:12:21,640 --> 00:12:23,040 Much. A little bit. 229 00:12:23,080 --> 00:12:24,520 BAILEY LAUGHS 230 00:12:24,560 --> 00:12:25,960 If there was a dating review website, 231 00:12:26,000 --> 00:12:28,280 I think I'd have five stars. I think I'm a catch. 232 00:12:28,320 --> 00:12:31,280 Yeah, I mean, yeah, look at me. I enjoy being tall. 233 00:12:31,320 --> 00:12:32,640 I think that is such a good trait 234 00:12:32,680 --> 00:12:34,320 when you're trying to approach women. 235 00:12:34,360 --> 00:12:35,840 I've got to put my height on a dating app. 236 00:12:35,880 --> 00:12:37,400 I put, "Hi, I'm 6'4". 237 00:12:37,440 --> 00:12:39,160 Yeah. "Remember, I'm 6'4"." 238 00:12:40,400 --> 00:12:41,920 I'm definitely an extrovert. 239 00:12:41,960 --> 00:12:45,040 I'm just loud, so I end up being centre of attention. 240 00:12:47,920 --> 00:12:50,360 I like to think of myself somewhat as an entrepreneur. 241 00:12:50,400 --> 00:12:52,400 I'm kind of like the Richard Branson of Brighton. 242 00:12:53,680 --> 00:12:57,040 I own a microbrewery. It helps me on dates loads. 243 00:12:57,080 --> 00:12:58,840 I mean, if I'm in a bar that sells the beer, 244 00:12:58,880 --> 00:13:01,560 it'd be like, "Oh, oh, they sell my beer here, do they?" 245 00:13:01,600 --> 00:13:03,800 Like I didn't know already. Works a charm, you see. 246 00:13:03,840 --> 00:13:05,280 That works a treat. 247 00:13:05,320 --> 00:13:07,680 My beer is named after my gorgeous little daughter. 248 00:13:08,920 --> 00:13:10,240 Wow. Look at that. 249 00:13:11,520 --> 00:13:12,960 You ready? Here we go. 250 00:13:13,000 --> 00:13:15,840 Becoming a dad is the best thing I've ever done. 251 00:13:15,880 --> 00:13:18,240 She's the most important person in my life. 252 00:13:18,280 --> 00:13:21,880 I just have another level to love with Bluebell. 253 00:13:21,920 --> 00:13:25,600 Who's your best friend? You. Who's my best friend? 254 00:13:25,640 --> 00:13:27,240 Me. Yeah! 255 00:13:27,280 --> 00:13:29,160 Family is super important to me. 256 00:13:29,200 --> 00:13:30,880 I split up with my daughter's mother, 257 00:13:30,920 --> 00:13:32,960 and it was something I never wanted to do. 258 00:13:33,000 --> 00:13:37,280 We came to kind of the harsh reality that we would be happier separated. 259 00:13:37,320 --> 00:13:38,920 I do want more kids one day, 260 00:13:38,960 --> 00:13:40,880 so I think that makes it even more important 261 00:13:40,920 --> 00:13:45,000 to be in a strong relationship and to be really close with my partner. 262 00:13:45,040 --> 00:13:47,000 Be really sure about them. 263 00:13:47,040 --> 00:13:50,680 Why is love so important to you now? 264 00:13:50,720 --> 00:13:53,920 Oh! Love means everything to me. 265 00:13:53,960 --> 00:13:57,640 I'd love to be married. I'd love to start building a future, 266 00:13:57,680 --> 00:14:00,000 maybe build on my family and have a family together. 267 00:14:00,040 --> 00:14:01,480 All of these things are important to me. 268 00:14:01,520 --> 00:14:02,640 But the right person, 269 00:14:02,680 --> 00:14:06,320 someone I could see forever with. Just a team-mate. 270 00:14:06,360 --> 00:14:07,880 Like, someone to bring out the best in me. 271 00:14:07,920 --> 00:14:10,000 And then I can hopefully do that with her. Yeah. 272 00:14:13,120 --> 00:14:15,200 I'm looking for sparks. 273 00:14:15,240 --> 00:14:19,120 Honesty, kindness, 274 00:14:19,160 --> 00:14:20,720 entrepreneurial spirit. 275 00:14:22,360 --> 00:14:24,880 I think there's that fairy tale out there for everyone. 276 00:14:26,240 --> 00:14:28,560 And, yeah, I'm here searching for mine. 277 00:14:34,760 --> 00:14:37,960 Rebecca and Bailey are a fascinating couple. 278 00:14:38,000 --> 00:14:39,240 Let's start with Rebecca, 279 00:14:39,280 --> 00:14:42,120 who is possibly one of our trickiest brides to match. 280 00:14:42,160 --> 00:14:45,480 She's confident, career driven, a high achiever, 281 00:14:45,520 --> 00:14:48,320 and she demands perfection in all aspects of her life, 282 00:14:48,360 --> 00:14:51,600 including her partner. She wants a husband with an alpha 283 00:14:51,640 --> 00:14:54,840 personality who can match her energy and drive. 284 00:14:54,880 --> 00:14:56,600 It's a very high bar, 285 00:14:56,640 --> 00:14:59,040 but I think we may have cracked it with Bailey. 286 00:14:59,080 --> 00:15:02,880 He's an entrepreneur, self-assured, a leader in his peer group, 287 00:15:02,920 --> 00:15:05,080 and he radiates charm and confidence. 288 00:15:05,120 --> 00:15:07,480 Absolutely. Bailey is a big personality, 289 00:15:07,520 --> 00:15:08,760 but Rebecca's direct 290 00:15:08,800 --> 00:15:12,000 and honest characteristics will keep him on his toes. 291 00:15:12,040 --> 00:15:14,320 And they both have a genuine love of family, 292 00:15:14,360 --> 00:15:17,920 which, as a loving father, is a crucial quality for Bailey. 293 00:15:17,960 --> 00:15:19,200 And let's not forget, 294 00:15:19,240 --> 00:15:21,920 they are both highly active and extroverts 295 00:15:21,960 --> 00:15:24,040 who love the company of other people, 296 00:15:24,080 --> 00:15:25,600 so they should really 297 00:15:25,640 --> 00:15:28,320 bounce off each other's positive energy. 298 00:15:28,360 --> 00:15:32,760 If the spark ignites for these two, there could be fireworks. 299 00:15:32,800 --> 00:15:34,800 Rebecca and Bailey. 300 00:15:41,040 --> 00:15:44,240 REBECCA: I just want there to be like that spark and that connection. 301 00:15:44,280 --> 00:15:46,160 And then I look at him and I'm like, "Oh, OK." 302 00:15:46,200 --> 00:15:49,960 Do you feel like when you see him, you'll know? Yeah. 303 00:15:50,000 --> 00:15:51,520 Straight away? Yeah. 304 00:15:51,560 --> 00:15:54,320 I'll know within ten seconds. I'm just that type of person, 305 00:15:54,360 --> 00:15:55,600 though, aren't I? 306 00:15:55,640 --> 00:15:58,440 You do need to give people a chance as well. 307 00:15:59,920 --> 00:16:01,960 Rebecca likes everything her own way. 308 00:16:02,000 --> 00:16:05,120 And, you know, she's got certain standards 309 00:16:05,160 --> 00:16:08,000 that she wants everybody to live up to. 310 00:16:08,040 --> 00:16:10,960 But she does maybe need to compromise a little bit. 311 00:16:12,200 --> 00:16:17,520 I want somebody who, like, is a typical alpha guy. 312 00:16:17,560 --> 00:16:20,640 I'm always attracted to, like, the tallest guys. 313 00:16:20,680 --> 00:16:23,640 I hope he's well dressed, clean, big feet, 314 00:16:23,680 --> 00:16:27,440 gym bod, a six pack, discipline, and they work really hard. 315 00:16:27,480 --> 00:16:31,120 I would say you're picky. You have got your standards. 316 00:16:31,160 --> 00:16:33,600 You have, and you know what you want. 317 00:16:36,320 --> 00:16:37,560 God, it feels so real now you're here. 318 00:16:37,600 --> 00:16:39,080 I didn't sleep at all last night. 319 00:16:39,120 --> 00:16:41,120 What, nervous? No. I'm ready, I'm ready. 320 00:16:41,160 --> 00:16:42,200 I can't believe it. 321 00:16:42,240 --> 00:16:44,320 The day is here. I'm about to be a husband. 322 00:16:44,360 --> 00:16:46,960 I'm going to have a wife. I can't wait to meet her. 323 00:16:47,000 --> 00:16:49,960 Get me down that aisle. She might not like you. 324 00:16:50,000 --> 00:16:51,280 Are you worried about that at all? 325 00:16:52,320 --> 00:16:53,760 No, I'm not worried about that. 326 00:16:55,160 --> 00:16:57,440 She'll love me. Like, it's fine. 327 00:16:57,480 --> 00:17:00,640 I'm obviously Mr Confident. I'm not used to people not fancying me. 328 00:17:00,680 --> 00:17:02,880 I get a lot of numbers, get a lot of dates. 329 00:17:02,920 --> 00:17:04,960 Is she going to be in love as soon as she sees me? 330 00:17:07,080 --> 00:17:10,640 He's always confident. A bit too confident at times. 331 00:17:13,400 --> 00:17:15,160 Try and crack on with her for the first night. 332 00:17:15,200 --> 00:17:16,840 What and she's... If she's not feeling it... 333 00:17:16,880 --> 00:17:20,280 Yeah. ..how would you react to that? I don't know. 334 00:17:20,320 --> 00:17:21,760 Listen, I'm not even thinking about it. 335 00:17:21,800 --> 00:17:23,120 It's never happened. 336 00:17:51,360 --> 00:17:53,480 I definitely am looking to settle down. 337 00:17:54,840 --> 00:17:56,720 I just haven't met the right person. 338 00:17:57,760 --> 00:17:59,840 I want to call someone my wife. 339 00:17:59,880 --> 00:18:01,920 And I want to be with someone forever. 340 00:18:19,600 --> 00:18:21,400 Hello, hello. 341 00:18:23,520 --> 00:18:26,840 All right? Hi. How's it going? Hello. 342 00:18:28,280 --> 00:18:29,840 HE LAUGHS 343 00:18:33,400 --> 00:18:35,600 What's your name? I'm Bailey. Bailey? 344 00:18:35,640 --> 00:18:37,960 Yeah. Nice to meet you all. You all look lovely. 345 00:18:38,000 --> 00:18:39,240 Thank you. 346 00:18:41,640 --> 00:18:43,360 Rebecca knows what she wants. 347 00:18:43,400 --> 00:18:48,520 So I will know from Rebecca's face if this is not her dream man. 348 00:18:53,200 --> 00:18:55,320 I'm picturing, like, a man who's got, like, 349 00:18:55,360 --> 00:18:56,880 stature about him. 350 00:18:59,160 --> 00:19:02,160 I want him to be a dominant figure. 351 00:19:05,000 --> 00:19:06,440 I've walked away from something 352 00:19:06,480 --> 00:19:09,240 before because I didn't want to settle. 353 00:19:12,280 --> 00:19:15,000 And if they don't tick enough boxes 354 00:19:15,040 --> 00:19:17,960 for me straight away... 355 00:19:18,000 --> 00:19:20,040 ..I will say how I feel. 356 00:19:48,120 --> 00:19:49,880 How's it going? You all right? Hi. 357 00:19:49,920 --> 00:19:51,400 HE LAUGHS 358 00:19:51,440 --> 00:19:54,280 How are you? Nice to meet you. Nice to meet you, too. I'm Rebecca. 359 00:19:54,320 --> 00:19:55,800 Hi, Rebecca. I'm Bailey. Nice to meet you. 360 00:19:55,840 --> 00:19:57,480 Bailey? Yeah. 361 00:19:57,520 --> 00:20:00,560 You look lovely. Thank you so much. So do you. 362 00:20:02,360 --> 00:20:05,960 She's absolutely stunning. I can't believe it. 363 00:20:06,000 --> 00:20:08,800 She's right up my street. She's a bit of me. 364 00:20:08,840 --> 00:20:11,480 God, you look lovely, by the way. Really lovely. 365 00:20:11,520 --> 00:20:13,880 Yeah, honestly. Yeah. Very happy. Big smiles. 366 00:20:13,920 --> 00:20:16,160 Look at me. I'm like a Cheshire cat. 367 00:20:27,720 --> 00:20:30,840 How tall are you? 6'4". 6'4"?! 368 00:20:30,880 --> 00:20:32,600 Yeah. Is that all right? 369 00:20:39,200 --> 00:20:40,480 He's not 6'4". 370 00:20:42,480 --> 00:20:44,120 I guess 6'1". 371 00:20:45,640 --> 00:20:47,960 I said I would know within ten seconds. 372 00:20:49,800 --> 00:20:54,360 And alarm bells are going off in my head. 373 00:20:56,760 --> 00:20:58,040 He's not my type. 374 00:21:02,280 --> 00:21:03,640 Oh, God. 375 00:21:12,560 --> 00:21:13,760 Thank you, all, for 376 00:21:13,800 --> 00:21:17,120 coming to celebrate this very special occasion. 377 00:21:17,160 --> 00:21:19,560 Now, in these beautiful surroundings, 378 00:21:19,600 --> 00:21:21,040 we come to the vows which 379 00:21:21,080 --> 00:21:23,400 Rebecca and Bailey have written to each other. 380 00:21:27,800 --> 00:21:31,360 I always tell my friends that first dates should be casual. 381 00:21:31,400 --> 00:21:34,880 Nothing too fancy. Don't overdress. 382 00:21:34,920 --> 00:21:38,280 And whatever you do, never talk about marriage. 383 00:21:38,320 --> 00:21:40,960 But, well, here we are. Nice to meet you. 384 00:21:42,640 --> 00:21:47,240 But in all seriousness, I vow to be your biggest fan, 385 00:21:47,280 --> 00:21:51,160 your supportive team-mate and your personal comedian. 386 00:21:51,200 --> 00:21:53,600 Always there to make you smile when you need cheering up. 387 00:21:54,960 --> 00:21:56,480 So here's to laughter... 388 00:21:57,640 --> 00:22:00,160 ..happiness and, who knows, 389 00:22:00,200 --> 00:22:01,520 hopefully - one day - love. 390 00:22:02,640 --> 00:22:04,000 So let's do this. 391 00:22:08,200 --> 00:22:09,440 To my husband... 392 00:22:11,560 --> 00:22:13,840 ..never in a million years did I think I'd stand 393 00:22:13,880 --> 00:22:17,280 in front of a stranger and agree to marry them. 394 00:22:17,320 --> 00:22:20,560 I decided this year was the year that I would say yes to everything, 395 00:22:20,600 --> 00:22:21,960 to every opportunity, 396 00:22:22,000 --> 00:22:25,760 to every invitation, but more importantly to you. 397 00:22:25,800 --> 00:22:27,560 I want to get to know the real you. 398 00:22:29,200 --> 00:22:31,280 I know we may go through tough times together, 399 00:22:31,320 --> 00:22:33,440 but all I ask... I'm going to cry. 400 00:22:34,480 --> 00:22:36,640 ..all I ask is that you try to love me... 401 00:22:37,800 --> 00:22:39,480 Sorry. 402 00:22:39,520 --> 00:22:41,320 ..that you try to love me just as I am. 403 00:22:43,120 --> 00:22:44,400 Please just accept me 404 00:22:44,440 --> 00:22:46,400 and let me show you how magical life can be 405 00:22:46,440 --> 00:22:48,680 with me by your side. 406 00:22:48,720 --> 00:22:50,080 Excuse me. 407 00:22:51,480 --> 00:22:54,640 So to my husband, I say yes to you today. 408 00:22:56,720 --> 00:22:59,560 And hopefully I will say yes every day thereafter. 409 00:23:02,320 --> 00:23:04,120 I'm going to start welling up. I can't speak. 410 00:23:05,360 --> 00:23:06,640 I don't want... I'm trying to... 411 00:23:06,680 --> 00:23:08,840 ..I'm trying to be all macho, ain't I? 412 00:23:13,040 --> 00:23:14,520 I don't think he's an alpha. 413 00:23:16,120 --> 00:23:17,600 No. 414 00:23:17,640 --> 00:23:19,840 Rebecca, I give you this ring. 415 00:23:19,880 --> 00:23:22,440 Wear it with joy and as a symbol of our unity. 416 00:23:23,800 --> 00:23:26,440 Bailey, I give you this ring with sincerity 417 00:23:26,480 --> 00:23:28,280 and as a symbol of our unity. 418 00:23:29,440 --> 00:23:33,360 Bailey, Rebecca, you may now share your first kiss. 419 00:23:41,600 --> 00:23:43,160 No. 420 00:23:43,200 --> 00:23:46,440 Like, a kiss on the mouth isn't right for me at this stage. 421 00:23:48,960 --> 00:23:52,440 Please join me in giving them your warmest congratulations. 422 00:23:53,760 --> 00:23:56,040 Thank you. Thank you. 423 00:24:05,680 --> 00:24:08,880 I can't remember the last time I was given the cheek, if I'm honest. 424 00:24:08,920 --> 00:24:10,880 I wanted a kiss. 425 00:24:10,920 --> 00:24:12,120 Oh, God, I don't know. 426 00:24:12,160 --> 00:24:14,200 Was that a first par? Bloody hell. 427 00:24:15,560 --> 00:24:21,000 I felt straight away there was no real sexual pull. 428 00:24:21,040 --> 00:24:25,120 I don't know if he'd be my type that I'd gravitate to. 429 00:24:27,240 --> 00:24:29,280 I'm a man on a mission now. 430 00:24:29,320 --> 00:24:31,120 I'm a man on a mission to get a kiss. 431 00:24:31,160 --> 00:24:32,960 Maybe a bit of tongue later. 432 00:24:41,360 --> 00:24:42,960 Oh, my God. 433 00:24:43,000 --> 00:24:44,240 JULIA-RUTH LAUGHS 434 00:24:44,280 --> 00:24:47,000 The experts have definitely got this right. 435 00:24:47,040 --> 00:24:48,440 I've literally met someone 436 00:24:48,480 --> 00:24:51,320 that I didn't truly believe ever existed. 437 00:24:51,360 --> 00:24:54,080 Ah. This looks really nice. You know what? 438 00:24:54,120 --> 00:24:56,520 I think I can stay here for a few nights. 439 00:24:56,560 --> 00:24:57,760 Cool. 440 00:24:59,480 --> 00:25:02,280 I've been married for less than 24 hours. 441 00:25:02,320 --> 00:25:08,040 The lack of physical desire does bother me a little bit. 442 00:25:08,080 --> 00:25:11,160 I love someone who is excited about life. 443 00:25:11,200 --> 00:25:14,120 And I'm getting the impression that Divarni is low energy. 444 00:25:14,160 --> 00:25:16,240 Wow. Just different energy to mine. 445 00:25:18,280 --> 00:25:21,280 If I had to design my own house, it would look like this. 446 00:25:21,320 --> 00:25:24,400 Yeah? But it would have pillars as well. 447 00:25:24,440 --> 00:25:26,880 Oh, pillars. I love... I love a house with pillars. 448 00:25:28,160 --> 00:25:31,920 I don't want a boring life. I want to do fun things together. 449 00:25:31,960 --> 00:25:33,880 Maybe that spark will come in time. 450 00:25:33,920 --> 00:25:36,080 Um, it hasn't really at the moment. 451 00:25:47,600 --> 00:25:49,240 LEIGH: It's our final dinner of the honeymoon. 452 00:25:49,280 --> 00:25:50,800 I'm hoping to clear the air. 453 00:25:50,840 --> 00:25:54,040 I've sort of had to think about how I'm behaving. 454 00:25:54,080 --> 00:25:55,320 I know that I've had moments 455 00:25:55,360 --> 00:25:59,280 where I could have been more open and I could have put more effort in. 456 00:25:59,320 --> 00:26:01,880 So I want her to know that I'm going to take on board what she said. 457 00:26:03,120 --> 00:26:04,680 We've had moments, I think, 458 00:26:04,720 --> 00:26:06,640 where we've been sort of up and down. 459 00:26:07,720 --> 00:26:11,720 I've maybe realised that there is an element of me 460 00:26:11,760 --> 00:26:15,440 that is maybe a bit more distant with you 461 00:26:15,480 --> 00:26:18,800 because of things I've been through in the past. 462 00:26:18,840 --> 00:26:24,520 Subconsciously, I've built a wall up so much since I've been single. 463 00:26:24,560 --> 00:26:26,200 It's like I've turned a switch off 464 00:26:26,240 --> 00:26:28,280 and I'm struggling to turn that switch back on. 465 00:26:31,000 --> 00:26:32,680 And that is why there's a bit of me that's kind 466 00:26:32,720 --> 00:26:33,880 of like kicking myself a little bit. 467 00:26:33,920 --> 00:26:36,160 I'm like, "Why is that bit not there?" 468 00:26:36,200 --> 00:26:39,800 Yeah. Because, like, I am attracted to you in a lot of ways. 469 00:26:42,880 --> 00:26:46,320 What I really appreciate today is me telling you 470 00:26:46,360 --> 00:26:48,160 that I feel like we need to meet 50-50 471 00:26:48,200 --> 00:26:50,040 and already you've gone away 472 00:26:50,080 --> 00:26:53,080 and you've worked on that straight away within hours. 473 00:26:53,120 --> 00:26:55,600 Do you know what I mean? Yeah. See, I can be sweet. 474 00:26:57,720 --> 00:27:00,840 It makes me feel like I'm definitely heard. 475 00:27:00,880 --> 00:27:02,720 Thank you. 476 00:27:02,760 --> 00:27:04,400 So I feel like she is trying. 477 00:27:07,160 --> 00:27:09,160 No, I'll feed it to you. I'm trying to be romantic. 478 00:27:09,200 --> 00:27:12,360 Sorry. You asked for effort. I'm giving you effort. 479 00:27:12,400 --> 00:27:13,680 Mm-hm. 480 00:27:28,080 --> 00:27:31,680 The sand on my feet... Ow! I think I just stepped on a rock. 481 00:27:31,720 --> 00:27:35,920 Thank you very much. Ow! I've just kicked the table. 482 00:27:35,960 --> 00:27:38,320 Oh. This is nice, isn't it? Yeah. 483 00:27:38,360 --> 00:27:40,720 Joe is a really nice guy. 484 00:27:40,760 --> 00:27:43,440 I didn't even know his name 24 hours ago, 485 00:27:43,480 --> 00:27:47,960 and now I'm in this amazing place in the Caribbean, 486 00:27:48,000 --> 00:27:51,760 I think, and I'm having a really good time. 487 00:27:55,760 --> 00:27:56,800 Oh, fucking hell! 488 00:27:58,000 --> 00:27:59,800 Are you being a lady tonight? 489 00:27:59,840 --> 00:28:02,120 SHE BURPS 490 00:28:02,160 --> 00:28:06,040 I think the biggest stumbling block about Maeve is she's got this big 491 00:28:06,080 --> 00:28:09,440 sort of character that's almost boisterous energy. 492 00:28:09,480 --> 00:28:11,760 Ha-ha! Fuck me, that is strong, you know. Oh! 493 00:28:13,560 --> 00:28:14,720 But I feel like I need to get 494 00:28:14,760 --> 00:28:16,600 to know each other on a deeper level tonight. 495 00:28:21,120 --> 00:28:22,560 So you do love being a mum? Yeah. 496 00:28:22,600 --> 00:28:25,760 Oh, yeah. The best feeling in the world. Best feeling in the world. 497 00:28:27,240 --> 00:28:29,240 I miss my son loads now. 498 00:28:29,280 --> 00:28:30,880 Seeing his little face in the morning, 499 00:28:30,920 --> 00:28:34,680 like, oh, I just squeeze him. Like, I wake up, like, ten minutes earlier 500 00:28:34,720 --> 00:28:37,160 just to give him a cuddle. That's nice. It's the best. 501 00:28:37,200 --> 00:28:38,880 Honestly, man, he melts my heart. 502 00:28:38,920 --> 00:28:41,000 Like, he is my best friend. 503 00:28:41,040 --> 00:28:45,200 But there are times when it is, like, hard. 504 00:28:45,240 --> 00:28:48,280 Yeah. Because I've got to be like the mam, the dad, like. 505 00:28:48,320 --> 00:28:49,560 And obviously I had him at 20, 506 00:28:49,600 --> 00:28:52,280 like, I've always been the person that's provided, 507 00:28:52,320 --> 00:28:53,760 like, paid all the bills and everything. 508 00:28:53,800 --> 00:28:57,280 Yeah. So I am quite, like, independent. 509 00:28:57,320 --> 00:28:59,720 See, I respect that massively. Yeah. 510 00:29:01,240 --> 00:29:02,640 You are a caring person, 511 00:29:02,680 --> 00:29:04,440 and I probably get that vibe off you. 512 00:29:04,480 --> 00:29:07,440 And that's exactly what I asked for. Someone that's got a good heart. 513 00:29:07,480 --> 00:29:10,000 And I genuinely do think you've got a heart of gold. Honest. 514 00:29:10,040 --> 00:29:11,400 Aww! 515 00:29:11,440 --> 00:29:12,840 That is actually nice. 516 00:29:15,360 --> 00:29:17,000 But I think you're put on this, like... 517 00:29:19,800 --> 00:29:23,160 ..facade. But I know there's a soft interior. 518 00:29:23,200 --> 00:29:24,400 I can just see it. 519 00:29:25,640 --> 00:29:29,760 I don't really open up to people. It's like I am shit scared 520 00:29:29,800 --> 00:29:31,920 of talking about how I actually feel. 521 00:29:31,960 --> 00:29:33,800 When people say that I have got a soft side, 522 00:29:33,840 --> 00:29:35,040 people do take the piss out of you, 523 00:29:35,080 --> 00:29:37,160 and I don't want that to happen again. 524 00:29:37,200 --> 00:29:39,720 But it's nice that he actually listens to me. 525 00:29:39,760 --> 00:29:41,280 I've never had that. 526 00:29:53,160 --> 00:29:55,440 Here we are. Here we are. Here we are. 527 00:29:56,560 --> 00:29:59,800 I definitely find Julia-Ruth...attractive. 528 00:29:59,840 --> 00:30:01,840 Getting to know her throughout this honeymoon stage, 529 00:30:01,880 --> 00:30:03,840 I feel like it's just really confirming 530 00:30:03,880 --> 00:30:06,040 what I've been looking for a very long time. 531 00:30:07,240 --> 00:30:11,840 So what was your first thought? Or how did you feel 532 00:30:11,880 --> 00:30:13,720 when you turned around and you saw me? 533 00:30:13,760 --> 00:30:17,480 When I turned around, and I saw you all smiling and walking up, 534 00:30:17,520 --> 00:30:23,760 I was so happy. Nervous. But I was stupid happy, man. Stupid. 535 00:30:23,800 --> 00:30:25,920 You're absolutely beautiful. 536 00:30:29,440 --> 00:30:30,800 That's really nice. 537 00:30:32,960 --> 00:30:36,080 What was your thinking when you saw me? 538 00:30:38,400 --> 00:30:41,080 I was like flooded with so many, like, emotions. 539 00:30:41,120 --> 00:30:45,720 Excited and nervous. And it was... It was a lot to take in. 540 00:30:45,760 --> 00:30:46,840 You were very confident. 541 00:30:46,880 --> 00:30:49,480 You were very calm when I was nervous. 542 00:30:49,520 --> 00:30:51,600 And I liked the fact that we had a lot in common. 543 00:30:54,200 --> 00:30:55,720 But, 544 00:30:55,760 --> 00:30:56,800 um... 545 00:31:00,560 --> 00:31:02,040 I think it is fair to say that there 546 00:31:02,080 --> 00:31:04,720 was an expectation maybe on, like, height. 547 00:31:08,400 --> 00:31:12,360 I mean, I have dated like taller guys. 548 00:31:12,400 --> 00:31:13,520 Huh. 549 00:31:13,560 --> 00:31:14,920 Mm-hm. 550 00:31:16,920 --> 00:31:19,560 He just feels like a really nice friend, at the moment. 551 00:31:26,080 --> 00:31:28,600 I don't want to be mean to him. 552 00:31:32,200 --> 00:31:33,560 Well. 553 00:31:40,080 --> 00:31:44,160 That shocks me. I'm not no basketball player. 554 00:31:44,200 --> 00:31:46,320 Yeah, that hurt. Shit! 555 00:32:10,360 --> 00:32:12,760 I definitely fancy her. She's obviously gorgeous, 556 00:32:12,800 --> 00:32:16,240 but I'm struggling to tell where she's at a little bit. 557 00:32:16,280 --> 00:32:17,560 This way for me. 558 00:32:17,600 --> 00:32:20,120 We look good. What do you reckon? 559 00:32:20,160 --> 00:32:21,560 Do we? Yeah, I think we look good. 560 00:32:21,600 --> 00:32:22,920 Yeah, I hope so. 561 00:32:23,960 --> 00:32:26,960 Bailey is so complimentary of me, 562 00:32:27,000 --> 00:32:31,160 but I just don't know if, like, the fancying is there for me. 563 00:32:34,600 --> 00:32:37,240 What's your type? I like a real masculine energy. 564 00:32:37,280 --> 00:32:39,240 Yeah. Sweet. Yeah. What are you like with your mates? 565 00:32:39,280 --> 00:32:41,240 I'm the loud one. Yeah. I'm proper extroverted. 566 00:32:41,280 --> 00:32:43,880 Yeah. What about you? 567 00:32:43,920 --> 00:32:47,240 I'd say I'm like the leader of the girls. Are you? 568 00:32:47,280 --> 00:32:49,160 Yeah. We're both alphas, then, are we? 569 00:32:49,200 --> 00:32:52,560 See, I don't get that vibe at all. What? From me? 570 00:32:52,600 --> 00:32:54,880 Yeah. Do you not? No. What am I giving? Beta vibes? 571 00:32:57,760 --> 00:32:59,720 What's going on? I'm obviously the alpha. 572 00:33:00,760 --> 00:33:02,760 Could I get a kiss for the camera? Is that OK? 573 00:33:02,800 --> 00:33:05,200 Please. I really don't feel like the kissing now. 574 00:33:05,240 --> 00:33:06,360 Can I kiss on the cheek? 575 00:33:10,440 --> 00:33:12,080 Yeah, you can kiss on the cheek. 576 00:33:17,000 --> 00:33:18,040 There we go. 577 00:33:20,560 --> 00:33:23,280 I've got the cheek again, but I can't work it out. 578 00:33:23,320 --> 00:33:25,120 I can't believe it. 579 00:33:28,160 --> 00:33:31,720 I don't think I see the Type A character from him yet. 580 00:33:32,880 --> 00:33:34,680 I don't know if we've got different 581 00:33:34,720 --> 00:33:36,960 definitions of what an alpha might be. 582 00:33:43,880 --> 00:33:45,360 You OK? 583 00:33:47,160 --> 00:33:50,200 No. You'll be all right. 584 00:33:50,240 --> 00:33:51,720 Hold on, hold on, hold on. Don't move. 585 00:33:51,760 --> 00:33:54,080 Don't move it just yet. We like the shaking. 586 00:33:55,800 --> 00:33:58,120 Ah! Go on! 587 00:33:59,200 --> 00:34:00,480 My feelings have definitely 588 00:34:00,520 --> 00:34:03,400 progressed with Maeve. I was a bit unsure at the wedding, 589 00:34:03,440 --> 00:34:05,120 but just getting to know her 590 00:34:05,160 --> 00:34:08,360 gradually, I'm getting signs that Maeve's sort of letting me in. 591 00:34:08,400 --> 00:34:10,800 Oh, my God! Oh, my God! Oh, my God! Fucking hell! 592 00:34:10,840 --> 00:34:12,360 I nearly knocked myself out. 593 00:34:12,400 --> 00:34:15,480 I'm not doing that ever again. Well done. 594 00:34:15,520 --> 00:34:17,840 What I've found is the more time that I'm spending with him, 595 00:34:17,880 --> 00:34:19,560 I am starting to like him. 596 00:34:19,600 --> 00:34:21,280 It's nice, isn't it, to go out your comfort zone? 597 00:34:21,320 --> 00:34:24,560 No! Well done. You smashed that! 598 00:34:24,600 --> 00:34:27,240 That was the worst thing I've ever done in my life. 599 00:34:27,280 --> 00:34:29,280 You smashed it. I was crying at the top. 600 00:34:29,320 --> 00:34:32,960 Me other boyfriends that I've been with are nothing compared to Joe. 601 00:34:34,320 --> 00:34:36,480 Like, Joe makes me feel really comfortable. 602 00:34:36,520 --> 00:34:39,520 And he reassures me quite a lot. 603 00:34:39,560 --> 00:34:41,720 But I've still got my guard up massively, 604 00:34:41,760 --> 00:34:44,680 so I don't want to give him 100% just yet. 605 00:34:48,400 --> 00:34:49,960 Fuck that! 606 00:34:58,440 --> 00:34:59,760 How are you feeling? 607 00:35:01,160 --> 00:35:02,280 Um... 608 00:35:04,120 --> 00:35:05,440 Not great. OK. 609 00:35:07,760 --> 00:35:09,920 There's tension for sure. 610 00:35:09,960 --> 00:35:10,960 When Julia-Ruth shared 611 00:35:11,000 --> 00:35:13,200 her perspective on first thoughts at the wedding, 612 00:35:13,240 --> 00:35:15,680 yeah, that hurt, 613 00:35:15,720 --> 00:35:17,840 but I'm still physically attracted to her. 614 00:35:17,880 --> 00:35:20,800 I'm emotionally attached to her for sure, 615 00:35:20,840 --> 00:35:23,360 and I really want this to work as much as possible. 616 00:35:23,400 --> 00:35:26,520 I'll just let my character be bigger and taller, 617 00:35:26,560 --> 00:35:28,560 so that's where my mind's at, 618 00:35:28,600 --> 00:35:31,240 really and truly. 619 00:35:31,280 --> 00:35:34,800 Just feel like there's still more days left... Mm-hm. 620 00:35:34,840 --> 00:35:38,320 ..to see where it's going to go. Yeah. 621 00:35:38,360 --> 00:35:42,400 Sometimes it's easier to adjust to your partner's needs. 622 00:35:44,560 --> 00:35:45,800 And I feel like it just depends 623 00:35:45,840 --> 00:35:49,160 on circumstances, situations, time. 624 00:35:51,320 --> 00:35:53,480 Divarni is just boring. 625 00:35:54,680 --> 00:35:56,320 I just want to, like, let our hair down. 626 00:35:57,760 --> 00:35:59,280 So today I just want to see him, like, 627 00:35:59,320 --> 00:36:03,560 have fun with cooking Moroccan food. And then maybe the physical 628 00:36:03,600 --> 00:36:05,960 attraction would have come just a little bit easier. 629 00:36:21,240 --> 00:36:23,640 This is me right now in my element. Yeah. 630 00:36:23,680 --> 00:36:27,280 Super happy. I love eating, I love good food. 631 00:36:27,320 --> 00:36:29,240 Lots of flavours. Spices. 632 00:36:35,080 --> 00:36:36,320 Nice. 633 00:36:41,120 --> 00:36:43,320 I'm really trying to have fun. 634 00:36:45,400 --> 00:36:48,160 But the conversation has been a bit of a struggle. 635 00:36:50,160 --> 00:36:52,600 Can I borrow your knife? OK. 636 00:37:06,600 --> 00:37:09,960 So, yeah, it's not ideal. It's not fun. 637 00:37:20,400 --> 00:37:22,640 Hello, everyone. All right. Hello. 638 00:37:24,720 --> 00:37:26,840 Oh! What do you reckon? 639 00:37:28,160 --> 00:37:30,520 Yeah. I want to be punching. 640 00:37:33,360 --> 00:37:37,120 What do you drink? Er, anything. Are you...? Do you drink? 641 00:37:37,160 --> 00:37:40,400 Do you drink? You do drink? Just not like loads. OK, I don't drink loads. 642 00:37:40,440 --> 00:37:43,080 But, um, no, a little bit. Is it just because I said I drink? 643 00:37:43,120 --> 00:37:44,840 No, no, I mean, I actually don't drink loads. 644 00:37:46,720 --> 00:37:48,720 But, um. Yeah. Anything. Beer. Wine. 645 00:37:48,760 --> 00:37:50,840 So do you drink a lot of them? 646 00:37:50,880 --> 00:37:52,720 Not a lot. I feel like you're going to lie to me. 647 00:37:52,760 --> 00:37:55,280 No, no, not loads. I'm a social drinker. 648 00:37:57,200 --> 00:38:00,080 Do you go out quite a lot? Not like... What? Like, depends 649 00:38:00,120 --> 00:38:01,600 what you mean. Socially - no. 650 00:38:01,640 --> 00:38:03,320 Like to watch the football at the pub, 651 00:38:03,360 --> 00:38:04,760 then a little bit, but, like, 652 00:38:04,800 --> 00:38:07,240 it's like literally to do that and go home. 653 00:38:08,480 --> 00:38:10,280 You can say who you go out. No, no, no, 654 00:38:10,320 --> 00:38:15,360 I swear. I just want you to tell me how you act like you are. 655 00:38:15,400 --> 00:38:17,080 Like, I just want to get to know you properly. 656 00:38:17,120 --> 00:38:18,520 Do you know what I mean? 657 00:38:20,880 --> 00:38:22,280 When somebody is an alpha, 658 00:38:22,320 --> 00:38:24,440 they don't try too hard to be like that. 659 00:38:26,400 --> 00:38:28,240 Yeah, like fitness is like a big part of my life. 660 00:38:28,280 --> 00:38:30,800 Yeah, I like training, so I like being in the gym. 661 00:38:30,840 --> 00:38:33,600 Always in the gym. I go every day. I can never go a week without going. 662 00:38:34,920 --> 00:38:38,240 I went, like, 24 days in the in the month. 663 00:38:38,280 --> 00:38:40,600 So, yeah, I'm always in the gym. 664 00:38:40,640 --> 00:38:43,400 He's saying so much shit. I know. 665 00:38:43,440 --> 00:38:45,440 HE SNORES 666 00:38:51,040 --> 00:38:54,040 I do worry about the authenticity. 667 00:38:54,080 --> 00:38:55,080 I'll be back. 668 00:38:55,120 --> 00:38:56,680 Oh, you're off, are you? I'm off. 669 00:38:56,720 --> 00:38:59,280 I'm going to go and speak to your friends. 670 00:38:59,320 --> 00:39:01,120 Wait, who are you speaking to? My friends? 671 00:39:01,160 --> 00:39:04,400 I'm not sure if Bailey is being really real with me. 672 00:39:05,600 --> 00:39:08,360 Hello there. So... What do you want to know? 673 00:39:08,400 --> 00:39:11,120 The goss. OK. Tell me all the goss. 674 00:39:11,160 --> 00:39:13,880 Fire away. Fire away. Is he six foot four? 675 00:39:13,920 --> 00:39:15,320 There's no way he's six four. 676 00:39:17,040 --> 00:39:19,080 He's about six two on a good day, I think. 677 00:39:23,400 --> 00:39:26,480 So, he said to me that he trained every day. 678 00:39:26,520 --> 00:39:29,520 When he says train, he means he does five press-ups in the morning. 679 00:39:30,560 --> 00:39:33,000 It is a white lie. It makes no sense to me. 680 00:39:33,040 --> 00:39:35,000 I don't mind. I don't need someone 681 00:39:35,040 --> 00:39:37,080 who goes to the gym every single day. 682 00:39:37,120 --> 00:39:38,440 Just be honest. 683 00:39:39,760 --> 00:39:42,080 What's he been like in past relationships with people? 684 00:39:45,080 --> 00:39:46,160 Oh, no! 685 00:39:46,200 --> 00:39:48,600 No, no. The thing is...the thing is, 686 00:39:48,640 --> 00:39:50,880 with his, er, his ex, 687 00:39:50,920 --> 00:39:53,400 I can kind of see in ways, like, 688 00:39:53,440 --> 00:39:56,920 how he, like, sort of changed a little bit. 689 00:39:56,960 --> 00:39:58,560 He changed his dress sense a little bit. 690 00:39:58,600 --> 00:40:00,920 He changed his dress sense. Yeah. To match the partner. 691 00:40:00,960 --> 00:40:03,640 I think so. Really? Yeah. 692 00:40:03,680 --> 00:40:06,240 Oh, no, I don't like that. Yeah. I like someone who's just, 693 00:40:06,280 --> 00:40:08,960 like, dead sure of themselves. Yeah, yeah. Won't change for anyone. 694 00:40:09,000 --> 00:40:12,240 I have got concerns around Bailey. 695 00:40:12,280 --> 00:40:16,240 An alpha doesn't change for anybody. I want to get to know somebody 696 00:40:16,280 --> 00:40:19,040 for who they are and to fall in love with that. 697 00:40:19,080 --> 00:40:22,520 But he's putting on, like, a bit of a show, and it worries me. 698 00:40:34,120 --> 00:40:36,480 Right. What we got here? I'm really looking forward 699 00:40:36,520 --> 00:40:38,880 to having another night with Joe tonight. 700 00:40:38,920 --> 00:40:40,200 Are we liking it? 701 00:40:41,720 --> 00:40:43,000 Oh, wow. 702 00:40:45,320 --> 00:40:47,880 I think I'm having a really good time with him. 703 00:40:47,920 --> 00:40:50,840 I want it. Burning me...me soul. 704 00:40:52,040 --> 00:40:53,480 Fucking hell! 705 00:40:55,000 --> 00:40:58,760 But it's really hard when I start meeting someone 706 00:40:58,800 --> 00:41:00,840 because I've always got in the back of my mind 707 00:41:00,880 --> 00:41:02,480 they're going to hurt you. 708 00:41:02,520 --> 00:41:05,400 So I'm just trying to take it moment by moment. 709 00:41:06,840 --> 00:41:10,000 Today has been one of the most craziest days of my life. 710 00:41:10,040 --> 00:41:13,000 Zip-lining through a jungle. It has been a lot, like. 711 00:41:13,040 --> 00:41:15,040 Yeah. How are you feeling about everything? 712 00:41:15,080 --> 00:41:17,800 I'm good. Yeah. I think it's nice to see you, 713 00:41:17,840 --> 00:41:20,720 like, do all this...this, like, different shit. 714 00:41:20,760 --> 00:41:24,200 But obviously you said that you have, like, a guard up. 715 00:41:25,280 --> 00:41:28,880 And I think when, like, me and you were in the villa, 716 00:41:28,920 --> 00:41:31,360 that's when, like, your guard comes down. 717 00:41:31,400 --> 00:41:32,760 But when we're more in, 718 00:41:32,800 --> 00:41:35,200 like a public setting, it goes back up again. 719 00:41:38,120 --> 00:41:40,000 But it's my job as a husband to sort of get 720 00:41:40,040 --> 00:41:42,880 that guard down and really get to know her more. 721 00:41:45,920 --> 00:41:47,800 You've really pissed me off. Why have I pissed you off? 722 00:41:47,840 --> 00:41:50,240 Cos you have. For what reason? You just have. Why? 723 00:41:50,280 --> 00:41:52,560 Because I actually feel myself going to kick off soon. 724 00:41:52,600 --> 00:41:54,800 What do you mean? I haven't said nothing. Yeah. 725 00:41:54,840 --> 00:41:56,560 You're saying that I don't fucking open up. 726 00:41:56,600 --> 00:41:59,160 Yeah, but you need to explain what... 727 00:41:59,200 --> 00:42:00,360 Do you know what I mean? 728 00:42:00,400 --> 00:42:02,880 I just don't want everyone to see that I'm like this. 729 00:42:02,920 --> 00:42:05,280 Like what? Well, obviously, like, I've got this big, 730 00:42:05,320 --> 00:42:07,400 like, personality that I don't give a fuck. 731 00:42:07,440 --> 00:42:09,720 And like, obviously, you know that I've got a softer side. 732 00:42:09,760 --> 00:42:11,360 I don't want everyone to see that. 733 00:42:13,480 --> 00:42:15,480 Do you know what I mean? That's part of your personality, 734 00:42:15,520 --> 00:42:16,520 so why wouldn't you? 735 00:42:16,560 --> 00:42:19,480 Cos I don't. Why do you care about that? Cos I do. 736 00:42:19,520 --> 00:42:20,560 For what? Yeah, 737 00:42:20,600 --> 00:42:23,280 but that isn't a reason, is it? Well, yeah. It is. 738 00:42:23,320 --> 00:42:24,800 It's a very fucking valid reason. 739 00:42:26,240 --> 00:42:28,320 What? Because I do. Yeah. 740 00:42:37,600 --> 00:42:39,560 I kept my guard up really, really quick. 741 00:42:39,600 --> 00:42:41,520 And that is the type of person that I am. 742 00:42:41,560 --> 00:42:43,480 I don't want anyone really to see how vulnerable 743 00:42:43,520 --> 00:42:46,120 I can be because I've been hurt so many times. 744 00:42:46,160 --> 00:42:48,920 But I feel like he's just said this out of nowhere, 745 00:42:48,960 --> 00:42:50,880 so me guard's gone straight back up. 746 00:42:53,920 --> 00:42:55,280 I didn't want to piss you off, like. 747 00:42:55,320 --> 00:42:57,240 Yeah, but you've actually hit a nerve, though. 748 00:42:57,280 --> 00:42:58,600 Why? 749 00:42:58,640 --> 00:43:00,880 Because you have. For what reason? Because you just have, 750 00:43:00,920 --> 00:43:02,680 and I'm not going round and round in circles. 751 00:43:02,720 --> 00:43:04,320 But you have just hit a nerve. Yeah, 752 00:43:04,360 --> 00:43:05,920 but you've got to give a reason for it. 753 00:43:07,800 --> 00:43:12,480 What? Oh, right. Right. Go on. You're pissing me off. 754 00:43:12,520 --> 00:43:15,680 Why? Cos you're fucking are, man. You actually fucking are. 755 00:43:23,160 --> 00:43:25,200 I just want her to feel more connected to me. 756 00:43:26,520 --> 00:43:27,760 And my main concern is 757 00:43:27,800 --> 00:43:30,120 that we don't actually get there in the end. 758 00:43:55,080 --> 00:43:57,560 I'm feeling a little uneasy right now. 759 00:43:57,600 --> 00:43:59,560 Like her not, like, opening up as much. 760 00:43:59,600 --> 00:44:01,640 It's something that I felt that I had to brought up. 761 00:44:06,520 --> 00:44:08,800 When I have a few drinks, I get in my head a little bit, 762 00:44:08,840 --> 00:44:11,120 and little things just trigger me. 763 00:44:11,160 --> 00:44:13,800 And I flew off the handle for no reason. 764 00:44:14,880 --> 00:44:17,200 I never liked to say I'm in the wrong about anything, 765 00:44:17,240 --> 00:44:18,680 even when I am in the wrong, 766 00:44:18,720 --> 00:44:21,480 but I need to tell him how I'm really feeling. 767 00:44:27,920 --> 00:44:29,520 You know, last night was a lot, wasn't it? 768 00:44:30,560 --> 00:44:31,760 Yeah. I mean... 769 00:44:33,040 --> 00:44:35,960 ..I feel like it's not really resolved what I was saying. 770 00:44:36,000 --> 00:44:37,760 Do you know what it is? I don't want people to see that 771 00:44:37,800 --> 00:44:39,720 I've got that softer side. 772 00:44:39,760 --> 00:44:43,240 I do struggle opening up, and, like, even just opening up to you 773 00:44:43,280 --> 00:44:45,960 about little things like that's massive for me. 774 00:44:46,000 --> 00:44:49,240 I honestly, I hate feeling vulnerable, 775 00:44:49,280 --> 00:44:50,440 but I just feel like every time 776 00:44:50,480 --> 00:44:53,640 when I let more people in, that's when I get fucked over more. 777 00:44:53,680 --> 00:44:54,840 Yeah. 778 00:44:54,880 --> 00:44:58,000 So that's why I'm always a bit of a...dick. 779 00:44:59,120 --> 00:45:00,840 But I wouldn't... I'm not going to fuck you over. 780 00:45:00,880 --> 00:45:01,920 Do you know what I mean? 781 00:45:04,400 --> 00:45:05,880 No need to worry about it. 782 00:45:05,920 --> 00:45:09,680 Everyone else has, though. So do you know what I mean? 783 00:45:09,720 --> 00:45:10,880 Yeah, 784 00:45:10,920 --> 00:45:14,480 yeah, I do. I do. But I did feel bad. 785 00:45:14,520 --> 00:45:15,680 You don't actually need to. 786 00:45:15,720 --> 00:45:19,360 It was just like a misunderstanding, and it's fine. 787 00:45:22,600 --> 00:45:26,120 He's making me feel really, like, really reassured about everything. 788 00:45:26,160 --> 00:45:29,480 Like, he's the kindest soul that I've actually ever met. 789 00:45:29,520 --> 00:45:30,880 And I feel like no matter what I say, 790 00:45:30,920 --> 00:45:32,280 he's not going to judge us. 791 00:45:32,320 --> 00:45:35,400 So I do think I'm going to be a little bit more open with him. 792 00:45:36,720 --> 00:45:40,440 I'm just trying to, like, learn about you. 793 00:45:40,480 --> 00:45:43,320 I feel closer to you now than I did before. 794 00:45:43,360 --> 00:45:45,520 I feel more comfortable around you. 795 00:45:47,920 --> 00:45:49,840 We've just got to take a day at a time, though, haven't we? 796 00:45:49,880 --> 00:45:51,960 And that's what I think. And to be fair, 797 00:45:52,000 --> 00:45:53,520 I was pretty scared at what, 798 00:45:53,560 --> 00:45:54,880 like, drunk you were going to be like. 799 00:45:54,920 --> 00:45:57,720 But you weren't that bad. That wasn't anything. 800 00:45:57,760 --> 00:45:58,800 That was literally just 801 00:45:58,840 --> 00:46:00,760 me saying I needed to get away from you. 802 00:46:00,800 --> 00:46:01,840 Like that was... I was scared 803 00:46:01,880 --> 00:46:04,480 for my safety, to be fair. Shut up, man! 804 00:46:10,360 --> 00:46:14,760 Your friends were very telling about how you are. 805 00:46:14,800 --> 00:46:15,920 Yeah. In a good way. 806 00:46:18,600 --> 00:46:22,280 They said that you don't go to the gym... Blud...! 807 00:46:22,320 --> 00:46:25,440 And...you're not six foot four. 808 00:46:28,280 --> 00:46:29,320 That's wild. 809 00:46:32,200 --> 00:46:34,120 Everything I've said has been total truth. 810 00:46:35,560 --> 00:46:37,040 Total truth. Honestly. 811 00:46:37,080 --> 00:46:41,720 I want you to be 100% you. That's so important to me. 812 00:46:41,760 --> 00:46:43,200 Like, I want you to just be yourself. 813 00:46:43,240 --> 00:46:44,800 I feel I've always been true of myself. 814 00:46:44,840 --> 00:46:46,080 Your friends didn't say that. 815 00:46:48,120 --> 00:46:50,840 They said that when you was with an ex... 816 00:46:50,880 --> 00:46:53,520 Yeah. ..she dressed quite quirky. 817 00:46:53,560 --> 00:46:57,920 And they said that you, like, matched that. 818 00:46:57,960 --> 00:46:59,800 Yeah. And you dressed in a similar way. Yeah, 819 00:46:59,840 --> 00:47:01,160 that's probably a bit more true. 820 00:47:01,200 --> 00:47:03,720 I don't want you to change at all for me. 821 00:47:09,360 --> 00:47:13,840 But I wouldn't see it changing. I would see it growing with someone. 822 00:47:15,640 --> 00:47:17,800 I think I've grown from all of my past relationships, 823 00:47:17,840 --> 00:47:21,120 and it's kind of made me into the person I am today. 824 00:47:21,160 --> 00:47:23,480 I think, like, I want to meet someone that I can grow with 825 00:47:23,520 --> 00:47:25,760 and they can grow with me, and I think that's healthy. 826 00:47:27,200 --> 00:47:28,240 OK. 827 00:47:29,560 --> 00:47:32,040 He seems like he's got the gift of the gab. 828 00:47:32,080 --> 00:47:34,840 I just want to make sure that the person I'm with, 829 00:47:34,880 --> 00:47:36,200 and they're really sure of themselves 830 00:47:36,240 --> 00:47:39,520 and they don't change for an ex or anybody else. 831 00:47:39,560 --> 00:47:41,280 Come on then, let's cheers. Cheers. Cheers. 832 00:47:43,360 --> 00:47:44,560 Oh, no! 833 00:47:45,720 --> 00:47:46,760 Come on. 834 00:47:54,040 --> 00:47:57,120 This is nice. Got the honeymoon suite, look. 835 00:47:57,160 --> 00:47:59,600 So we need to discuss 836 00:47:59,640 --> 00:48:02,720 the sleeping arrangements. Oh, yeah. Yeah. 837 00:48:02,760 --> 00:48:03,760 What are your thoughts? 838 00:48:08,560 --> 00:48:09,840 Uh, yeah, it's up to you, babe, yeah. 839 00:48:09,880 --> 00:48:13,320 I can take the sofa. I'm very much a gentleman. 840 00:48:13,360 --> 00:48:14,960 It's up to you. Totally up to you. Yeah. 841 00:48:18,560 --> 00:48:19,680 OK. I mean, 842 00:48:19,720 --> 00:48:22,240 if you're happy to sleep on the sofa, that'd be great. 843 00:48:24,320 --> 00:48:27,800 I just want, like, a clear... Yeah. ..divide between us, 844 00:48:27,840 --> 00:48:30,560 just for now. Yeah, we can certainly get on, yeah. 845 00:48:30,600 --> 00:48:34,320 Yeah. Is that OK with you? Yeah. That's fine. Yeah. 846 00:48:34,360 --> 00:48:35,880 Good. 847 00:48:35,920 --> 00:48:39,800 I was not expecting that in the slightest, but I'm 848 00:48:39,840 --> 00:48:41,680 still interested, don't get me wrong. 849 00:48:41,720 --> 00:48:43,400 I think there's still something there to work on. 850 00:48:45,560 --> 00:48:46,720 See you in the morning, wifey. 851 00:48:48,080 --> 00:48:49,240 Goodnight. Night. 852 00:48:51,080 --> 00:48:54,040 I'm just not there yet. It's so early on. 853 00:48:54,080 --> 00:48:56,920 I don't know if I've, like, met the real him yet. 854 00:48:57,960 --> 00:48:59,120 I need to build that connection 855 00:48:59,160 --> 00:49:01,360 before I can be physically intimate with him. 856 00:49:19,520 --> 00:49:22,920 We've got a nice milk... Milk bath. 857 00:49:22,960 --> 00:49:24,880 It says, "I heart you." 858 00:49:24,920 --> 00:49:26,200 I thought it said, "Joe." 859 00:49:26,240 --> 00:49:27,280 SHE LAUGHS 860 00:49:28,560 --> 00:49:31,920 I definitely think the argument's brought us closer together. 861 00:49:31,960 --> 00:49:34,520 It was important that Maeve sort of opened up. 862 00:49:34,560 --> 00:49:35,600 I do feel like we are 863 00:49:35,640 --> 00:49:38,000 understanding each other more and more every day. 864 00:49:38,040 --> 00:49:41,040 Cheers for the last day. Cheers. 865 00:49:41,080 --> 00:49:42,520 Feeling great after last night. 866 00:49:42,560 --> 00:49:45,080 Me and Maeve had a really nice time when we got to the villa. 867 00:49:45,120 --> 00:49:48,280 We really did get to know each other on a deeper level. 868 00:49:48,320 --> 00:49:50,600 One thing led to another, and that's it. 869 00:49:50,640 --> 00:49:52,200 That's all I'm saying. 870 00:49:52,240 --> 00:49:53,720 Oh, God! 871 00:49:53,760 --> 00:49:57,040 I can...tell you now, 872 00:49:57,080 --> 00:49:59,200 that is definitely more than a good body. 873 00:49:59,240 --> 00:50:02,040 He is a very... He's a good time guy. 874 00:50:14,400 --> 00:50:17,120 Hello. Hello. Hi. How are you? Good. Thanks. 875 00:50:17,160 --> 00:50:18,960 How are you doing? Yes. 876 00:50:20,040 --> 00:50:22,880 At the moment, I feel like it's feeling really awkward. 877 00:50:22,920 --> 00:50:25,680 Hey. Whoa. That's mad. 878 00:50:25,720 --> 00:50:29,120 Today I just want us to have lots of laughs and trying to focus on, 879 00:50:29,160 --> 00:50:31,200 like, the good things and the energy. 880 00:50:31,240 --> 00:50:33,120 Whoa! 881 00:50:33,160 --> 00:50:34,800 Jeez. 882 00:50:37,920 --> 00:50:38,920 Yo. 883 00:50:40,600 --> 00:50:42,120 I didn't envision my honeymoon to be like this, 884 00:50:42,160 --> 00:50:45,160 but marriage, just as we all know, it's not going to be easy. 885 00:50:45,200 --> 00:50:46,880 Ultimately, this is just another opportunity just 886 00:50:46,920 --> 00:50:48,000 to get close to my wife. 887 00:50:48,040 --> 00:50:51,560 And I still strongly believe that we can get over this hump. 888 00:50:53,600 --> 00:50:55,280 You hear that? Pure silence. 889 00:50:57,840 --> 00:50:58,880 That's nice. 890 00:51:01,000 --> 00:51:02,040 That's really nice. 891 00:51:10,520 --> 00:51:11,560 Oh, look at that. 892 00:51:13,680 --> 00:51:14,880 Are you, like, a scenic person? 893 00:51:14,920 --> 00:51:18,320 Like views and all of that? Yeah? Yeah. 894 00:51:21,120 --> 00:51:22,920 I actually did very well in the subject 895 00:51:22,960 --> 00:51:26,200 of earth and space in school. 896 00:51:26,240 --> 00:51:27,280 OK. 897 00:51:28,640 --> 00:51:30,080 This is quite hard. 898 00:51:30,120 --> 00:51:31,600 I'm struggling with the conversation. 899 00:51:33,440 --> 00:51:34,960 Kind of just live a fearless life. 900 00:51:36,360 --> 00:51:37,680 I just kind of just step into 901 00:51:37,720 --> 00:51:40,080 the unknown, whatever that looks like. Mm. 902 00:51:41,800 --> 00:51:42,840 How I've grown up, 903 00:51:42,880 --> 00:51:47,000 I've always been a protector or just a facilitator, keeping the peace. 904 00:51:47,040 --> 00:51:48,080 Mm. 905 00:51:49,320 --> 00:51:52,160 Are you afraid of heights? Nah. No? No. Are you? 906 00:51:52,200 --> 00:51:53,720 No, no, no, no. Yeah? 907 00:51:55,400 --> 00:51:58,480 Do you have any, like, fears? 908 00:51:58,520 --> 00:52:00,440 Like, what scares you the most? 909 00:52:00,480 --> 00:52:03,760 Growing up, I was always alone, even with my whole family. 910 00:52:03,800 --> 00:52:06,240 And I think knowing that I could potentially be alone 911 00:52:06,280 --> 00:52:09,320 for the rest of my life, that would be the worst. 912 00:52:10,440 --> 00:52:11,480 Yeah. 913 00:52:13,600 --> 00:52:15,240 That's not what I meant at all. 914 00:52:15,280 --> 00:52:17,840 With Divarni, it is quite difficult to find 915 00:52:17,880 --> 00:52:20,720 the fun light-hearted side and just be a bit carefree. 916 00:52:21,960 --> 00:52:24,440 Yeah, it's just too deep. I don't know. 917 00:52:24,480 --> 00:52:26,360 I think the worst thing is that I've always went 918 00:52:26,400 --> 00:52:29,000 through life questioning why certain things happened. 919 00:52:30,160 --> 00:52:32,720 It's always hit and misses. That's a strange way to look at it. 920 00:52:32,760 --> 00:52:34,240 No. Not really. 921 00:52:34,280 --> 00:52:37,720 No-one caters to me. That shit sucks. 922 00:52:39,160 --> 00:52:41,760 He doesn't see any positives or, like, that with me, 923 00:52:41,800 --> 00:52:42,800 it's just like... 924 00:52:44,440 --> 00:52:46,240 It's like...it's just too much. 925 00:52:46,280 --> 00:52:48,000 You focus on the negative. 926 00:52:48,040 --> 00:52:50,000 You're saying it sucked. 927 00:52:50,040 --> 00:52:52,920 You sit in the negativity and you attract negativity 928 00:52:52,960 --> 00:52:56,160 and draw negativity and it will keep coming back. 929 00:53:00,360 --> 00:53:01,840 Camel ride was a disaster. 930 00:53:05,040 --> 00:53:07,240 It's just hard. It just feels like it's... 931 00:53:07,280 --> 00:53:09,600 Just, like, a lot of negativity. 932 00:53:09,640 --> 00:53:12,320 I can't...I can't lift us both up. 933 00:53:12,360 --> 00:53:13,400 I can't. 934 00:53:20,360 --> 00:53:21,440 This is definitely one of 935 00:53:21,480 --> 00:53:23,120 the hardest challenges I've been through. 936 00:53:23,160 --> 00:53:25,720 And I don't want it to be translated that the information 937 00:53:25,760 --> 00:53:28,120 that I was given was from a negative place. 938 00:53:28,160 --> 00:53:30,080 It was more of just me opening up. 939 00:53:36,680 --> 00:53:37,720 How you doing? 940 00:53:38,880 --> 00:53:39,920 OK. 941 00:53:41,480 --> 00:53:42,480 HE CLEARS THROAT 942 00:53:46,000 --> 00:53:49,920 It's pretty intense. Mm-hm. Very much intense. 943 00:53:49,960 --> 00:53:53,400 I just feel like what I needed was just a little bit of positivity 944 00:53:53,440 --> 00:53:56,400 and fun so we can feel the attraction. 945 00:53:56,440 --> 00:53:59,760 But on the camels, it was just like I sat there 946 00:53:59,800 --> 00:54:03,360 and you literally spat out one thing after another. 947 00:54:03,400 --> 00:54:04,840 I don't want you to feel you can't 948 00:54:04,880 --> 00:54:07,480 open up to me, cos that's not what the case is. 949 00:54:08,880 --> 00:54:11,880 There just needs to be a balance and like a time and a place for things. 950 00:54:13,880 --> 00:54:17,160 So, I came into this experiment to find my person, 951 00:54:17,200 --> 00:54:21,040 have someone that I can, as well as having fun, 952 00:54:21,080 --> 00:54:26,000 off-load to, and someone that ultimately understands me. 953 00:54:26,040 --> 00:54:27,440 It wasn't intentional to put you 954 00:54:27,480 --> 00:54:29,400 in that situation where it was like, 955 00:54:29,440 --> 00:54:31,680 "Damn, I'm trying to be Mr Negative." 956 00:54:31,720 --> 00:54:34,480 It was just something that hit me in that moment, 957 00:54:34,520 --> 00:54:37,600 and I was just pouring out the feelings. 958 00:54:37,640 --> 00:54:40,840 But the way you say things, 959 00:54:40,880 --> 00:54:44,200 it's just like a tornado of negativity. 960 00:54:44,240 --> 00:54:47,160 And it's hard to want to be intimate 961 00:54:47,200 --> 00:54:49,840 and grow and develop something when everything is 962 00:54:49,880 --> 00:54:52,000 so intense and so deep. 963 00:54:52,040 --> 00:54:53,760 The last thing I want to do is have 964 00:54:53,800 --> 00:54:56,600 a talk about traumas and then, like, get into bed with you. 965 00:55:04,120 --> 00:55:07,240 Maybe, like, just for tonight, 966 00:55:07,280 --> 00:55:09,280 we'll just do separate rooms, just to be clear. 967 00:55:09,320 --> 00:55:10,400 And then tomorrow we'll, like, 968 00:55:10,440 --> 00:55:13,920 regroup and just start like a fresh new day and like a clean slate. 969 00:55:17,600 --> 00:55:19,640 Shit. That's how I'm honestly feeling. 970 00:55:19,680 --> 00:55:20,720 Um... 971 00:55:21,880 --> 00:55:24,360 I feel like I've just been attacked. 972 00:55:24,400 --> 00:55:27,000 The thing that hurt me the most is sleeping in separate rooms. 973 00:55:27,040 --> 00:55:30,480 But if she needs her space, I'll give her space. 974 00:55:31,760 --> 00:55:33,080 There's trouble in paradise, innit? 975 00:55:43,280 --> 00:55:44,280 Next time... 976 00:55:44,320 --> 00:55:47,160 I know what I want and what I don't want, it has to be right. 977 00:55:47,200 --> 00:55:51,760 ..one more couple says I do. but expectations... 978 00:55:51,800 --> 00:55:56,120 I would like to be matched with someone who is a silver fox. 979 00:55:56,160 --> 00:55:57,400 Sense of humour. 980 00:55:57,440 --> 00:55:59,200 ..are quickly tested. 981 00:55:59,240 --> 00:56:00,880 Well, here's my version. 982 00:56:00,920 --> 00:56:01,960 Oh, you're joking! 983 00:56:03,040 --> 00:56:05,520 He's not the silver fox I had in mind. 984 00:56:07,080 --> 00:56:09,280 Bailey seeks a more intimate connection. 985 00:56:09,320 --> 00:56:12,560 I feel more comfortable now with my hands on you than off you. 986 00:56:12,600 --> 00:56:15,360 I personally wouldn't kiss somebody as soon as I've met them. 987 00:56:15,400 --> 00:56:17,280 That's just a bit too soon for me. 988 00:56:17,320 --> 00:56:19,640 And for Julia-Ruth and Divarni... 989 00:56:19,680 --> 00:56:21,320 Divarni and I slept separately. 990 00:56:21,360 --> 00:56:22,880 I haven't seen him since. 991 00:56:22,920 --> 00:56:24,960 ..the road to a honeymoon reunion... 992 00:56:26,000 --> 00:56:28,000 You don't really get a second chance with a woman like that. 993 00:56:28,040 --> 00:56:29,400 ..is heading for a dead end. 994 00:56:29,440 --> 00:56:31,680 This is not how I wanted my honeymoon to go. 995 00:57:06,080 --> 00:57:09,640 Subtitles by Red Bee Media